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Holy Silence Blog
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Narcissistic Abuse as Demonic Theft
You begin to forget who you were before them. The silence they weaponized taught you to shrink. Every room became a minefield, you learned to read the air before breathing it. Their voice replaced your own, until doubt felt more familiar than certainty. You isolated not because you wanted solitude, but because explaining the inexplicable exhausted you. You scanned faces, tones, and pauses for danger. You became a student of someone else's moods, a stranger to your own. The cr

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Mar 191 min read


The Soul's Patient Thaw
Spring's light does not arrive by force, But by a slow, faithful return. Each day grows longer, and What was once frozen strives to become A little more alive. Discernment shares this rhythm. There's rarely a blazing stroke of clarity, No sign carved bright in the sky. But a patient, quiet thaw. A subtle brightening, a gentle breathing. The soul leans into this warming Because it waits for the Spirit To whisper through what clamors. Stirring the inner life Relieving the soul

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Mar 131 min read


Trauma Bonds are Diabolical
We thought we loved them. But they definitely did not love us. Sometimes we enter relationships that Seem caring and helping, Even loving and lasting. But after a time, We discover that our significant other is Playing a dangerous and diabolical game with Our bodies, minds, hearts, and souls. What we were fooled into thinking was Dedication and determination, Even sacredness and safety, was really A malicious plan to trick us into Clinging to a perceived safe haven inside A c

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Mar 111 min read


Seek Healing and Help Others (Homily)
We are all the paralytic. Each of us is broken, sinful, and fragmented. That is why it is so very important to know when, where, why, and how to get help ... and to know when to help others ... over and over again. If you have a question or prayer request, please reach out here. If you can donate, please click here.

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Mar 81 min read


When You Can't Feel God
"Whether we believe or not, we belong to God. Whether we understand it or not, or feel His presence or not, or rejoice in that presence or not, He exists. "He is my God. He is my Lord. Even during moments of darkness and terror, when God doesn’t exist for me, He still exists. "When I feel I’m a failure, when all my efforts seem fruitless, when my life seems to have passed in vain, Christ is still my Christ. "He is there for me no matter what happens. He exists irrespective of

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Feb 201 min read


God Did Not Create You to Destroy You (Homily)
As we prepare for Great Lent, it is important to explore the ideas of death, judgment, heaven, and hell. It is also vital to understand that God offers us healing through sacrament, knowledge, mercy, joy, forgiveness, and love above all else. If you have a question or prayer request, please reach out here . If you can donate, please click here .

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Feb 151 min read


Restore Your Relationship with God (Homily)
We are all prodigal sons and daughters because we waste what we have: family, friends, and other relationships; the Church, the parish, and most importantly, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. This gospel, however, teaches us more than that. It is a reminder that we have to let go of our sins and shortcomings in order to heal and to grow in the knowledge that God exists and He loves us. That is why Confession is so important and why forgiving each other is so important

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Feb 91 min read


All Treachery Dies the Same
For 33 years, Christ walked upon this earth All the way up to Golgotha Beaten, broken, and bloodied High atop a cross. For 33 months, Someone I know has been carrying a cross Down a treacherous path they did not choose. It's been a slow crucifixion made with the kinds of Nails and thorns you don't expect from familiar hands. But evil won't get its way in the end. After 33 years, Christ's tomb did not have the final word. In a similar way I ask and I implore ... That during th

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Jan 211 min read


Forgive, Love, and Use Your Gifts (Homily)
Today, we are reminded that despite the darkness of sin and the lack of understanding that it creates, we are given what we need to know and to use our God-given gifts, to seek and to share love, and to give and to receive forgiveness. If you have a question or prayer request, please reach out here. If you can help, please click here.

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Jan 111 min read


Our Seasons of Waiting
When the apostles witnessed Your death, They scattered in fear, with their hopes shattered. For days they huddled behind locked doors, Paralyzed by grief and confusion. So too we often find ourselves in such dark rooms— Suffering, uncertain, waiting for a Deliverance we cannot imagine. Yet You did not abandon them. You appeared, breathed peace upon them, and at Pentecost sent Your Holy Spirit to Transfigure these trembling disciples into bold witnesses. Teach us patience in o

Fr. Thomas Colyandro
Jan 11 min read
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